The guys such as many who have posted in this blog that never took advantage of those easy chances get screwed over when they get older and realize that they’re gonna need experience to get laid, which they don’t have. I feel that even though when you turn 20, nature seems to go slowly against you in losing your virginity, I’m gonna seize the day and make a full out effort to lose my v-card so I can break the ice. Then after that, if getting laid still is difficult for me, I wouldn’t mind paying hookers once in a blue moon because losing my v-card without paying is very important to me. I’m already doing it now, talking to girls when I get chance to boost my confidence and social skills, it’s an uphill battle for me, but I’m not too far down the hill yet.

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I’m a 24 year old virgin and it’s mainly a result of high social anxiety, too much masturbating in general, and then porn addiction in my early twenties. I’ve had several chances to get laid, but didn’t take advantage of them because of the above reasons. I’m past all that and definitely feel more confident and social with women, but I still need to lose my v card. I’ve read the posts from older men that haven’t lost their virginity. I see similar traits from them in me, and it’s kind of looking at the ghost of Christmas future, which kind of frightens me and motivates me even more to lose it now before it is too late.

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I noticed that when your very young (college-aged), like 18-21. The chances to get laid easily are pretty high especially if you are at least decent looking, however as you get older, it becomes more difficult, and while the chances still come they aren’t as frequent. I think the majority of guys who lose their virginity, lost it because they took advantage of the easy lay. So even though it gets more challenging as they get older, they have the experience to get the harder lays.

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I realize, that even though I’m late bloomer, it isn’t too late for me yet. I can still lose my virginity if I put some effort, as I have roughly 10 years to lose it until all hope is lost at around the age of 35. I’ve been reading the older male virgins making rationalizations that sex isn’t necessary. I agree it isn’t necessary, just like getting stoned isn’t necessary or eating mushrooms aren’t necessary. However one thing sex and hallucinogenic drugs have in common is that they are incredible experiences that make you feel alive. You don’t need to do them frequently, but doing them at least a few times a year will at least make life better.

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Since your very first sex is usually always gonna be crap unless you happen to have a very sweet loving and already somewhat experienced girlfriend you might as well use brute force and go to a quality brothel, just to get your foot in the door. Get an experienced buddy who takes you to a brothel and picks out a hooker of your choice, talks to her and so on. Use the internet to find one if you like. My guess is the hooker will actually be pleased to experience the thrill of deflowering a guy. She will be very sweet and helpful and understanding. It’s her JOB to do what YOU want.

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